Cheating… why??? At what cost???
Just when you think you know people well, you will be surprised as to how little you know them. Take for example a situation where you find out a close family friend is cheating on his wife or she is cheating on her husband…
Do these people not have a thing called a conscience? Especially if he is the father or if she is the mother of your children?
Taking into the consideration the new partner, does this person not realized that he or she is breaking a family? Would this person want to be a part of a broken family? What makes them want to be a part of such a mess?
Now, looking at the children… because, no matter what, the poor child has got to be taken into consideration. At the end of the day, it is not just the two people in the marriage, the child or children get involved as well.
As a child, the centre of his universe is his family. There is nothing more important than feeling safe and secure within that little world called ‘family’. Then when the child learns that this little world, this source of strength and security is falling apart, it is said to be the worst feeling in the world.
With so much pain being spread why on earth do fathers and mothers do this?
What really makes people cheat on their partners and also put their children in the middle of it all? Why are people so selfish?
Once you make a vow to be with your partner for the rest of your life, to love, care, share, till death do you part and all the rest of it, what on earth would make you break all these promises?
Is it man’s animal instinct, which makes him give into the hands of temptation? Or is he just selfish?
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Comment by Rebecca — March 17, 2005 @ 8:57 am
I personally think that stupid excuses that ppl use to defend extra marital affairs are just pathetic. There is no excuse for cheating on your spouse no matter how horrible things can be. Just get out of it, divorce, leave them, whatever and ten dance any jig you want. This opinion is particularly when children are involved. You made a choice at some point to get married and then you cannot, while living with that choice make another of this sort. End your choice and start anew. Run at hte alter if you’re having doubts. Divorce if you’re not happy. Kill him if he’s beating you and not letting you leave. Ok .. maybe not kill …. poison him or her maybe ?
Comment by Iroms — March 17, 2005 @ 10:58 am
There is no, and never will be an excuse for cheating. It sucks. Not debatable.
Comment by Mahangu — March 18, 2005 @ 8:08 am
Cheating seems to be pretty common in Sri Lanka. I was surprised at first but beneth the veneer of respectability, a great deal of hanky panky is going on.
The values that many people in this country subscribe to, are victorian, and like the victorians, there is a great deal of hypocrisy.
Comment by Jack Point — September 17, 2005 @ 12:02 pm
umm…” man’s animal instinct, which makes him give into the hands of temptation? Or is he just selfish?” I’m assuming ur talking about women as well as men..cos both are equally likely to cheat. I think guys get the short end of the stick with regard to this..from what i have seen myself both sexes will cheat!
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